Very interesting! It is very difficult sometimes to know where the 'middle way' is - when should you act and when should you take a step back and go with the flow.
Several times, I haven't been sure whether a proposed course of action is the right one, so I haven't done anything. Then, several days later, events have led me to a different path, which I hadn't considered before and which appeared to be a better option than the one I had in mind initially.
Wishing you all the best in finding a more suitable school for your daughter,
Roz